Friday, November 3, 2017

Another update

Since I lasted posted on here, Fred ran into a traffic cone and flipped over his bike, landing rather abruptly on the pavement. The abrupt landing caused a break in his collarbone, which required surgery. When I went back to get him I got tickled because this was written on his left collarbone. It just made me laugh. 
Two weeks after surgery he is sling free and feeling pretty good. He still can't lift anything heavier than a coffee cup or ride a bike (outside), but he's making progress. 
During his surgery, Grandma Beulah and Renee sat in the waiting room with me. Grandma Beulah came prepared with 1/2 or so of muffins from Perkins. She's the best. 
Andrew and I try to read each afternoon together. Dash will not be left out. He typically sits right in between us or on top of us. 
 The other thing I do in the afternoon is carpool, carpool, carpool. With three boys in three different schools and three different sports, we keep the road hopping. I'm typically running from one thing to another for about 3 hours each afternoon.
 Here we are at a soccer game. The theme of our life right now is hurry out the door and wait. I mean, I love these middle and high school coaches that invest in my boys, but you know what I'm going to invest in for them of Christmas?? A watch. ;-)
Jack doesn't have much free time these days, but while Fred was down recovering from surgery, he was a big help. This particular day HE ASKED me if he could mop the kitchen. He asked me. I told him under no uncertain terms that he was always free to mop the kitchen floor. 
 Jack did not have practice one day and we found a little time to run together. It was so precious. He talked my ear off the entire time and encouraged me to run faster. He even said, "I bet I can can beat you to the house." To which I responded, "I bet you can too!"
It has been rather humid here these "fall" days. This is what my hair looks like when I go on a run with these temperatures. Nice, huh?? I think I could start a new trend. 
We have a sweet friend at church that plays football. One Friday night we headed to Arlington to watch him play. It was a great game and a good night for football. It's always a good night for football. 

Over fall break I did a little freezer cooking for our freezer swap. There are six of us that get together once a month and swap meals. Everyone leaves with six meals to store in their freezer for the month. It is delightful!
I made Meatball Subs. So one day I rolled about what seemed like 2,000 meatballs. It really only took me about 30 minutes. I also made chocolate chip cookies for everyone. 

Also over fall break we headed to Jack to spend a little time with my parents. We had a blast and ended up going to the Farmer's Market to get a donut, because that seems like the right thing to get at a Farmer's Market when people are selling fresh fruits and vegetables. It was the best donut I've ever eaten. It was also as big as my head. I was only about to eat about 1/3 of it. 

On Sunday our sweet friends from Paris surprised us at church. I had a difficult time maintaining my composure when I looked over and saw them. Man, I love these people. I also can't believe how much all of our children have grown. 

Jack came down the Monday after fall break dressed like this...with his sweatshirt on backwards. He did not even notice it until I pointed it out. Bless him. 
My mom and I had our annual shopping trip. The boys were at Camp-o-Ree so we just stayed at my house. Friday we shopped so long that we were exhausted Saturday. We did a little bit Saturday, but mainly just watched some football and hung out. 
 Jack has been playing, practicing, talking about, dreaming about basketball. The first home game was two weeks ago and it just happened to be Andrew's birthday. Andrew requested waffles for his birthday breakfast. For all the home games, Jack's coach has them dress up. Not wanting to mess up these dress clothes, I had just wear an apron. He went along with it thankfully and no syrup was drizzled on him.
 Sweet boy all dressed up...
 Sitting with the team.
 Dressed and ready for his first JV game. They lost. Jack does not like to lose.

One morning Jack had to wear his tie and Fred was working out so Clayton helped him. Bless my heart it was about the sweetest thing ever. 
Clayton has been living and breathing soccer. His rec season just finished up and now he's headed to conditioning with the high school team. He's been working all summer at him running times. On the first day of conditioning he ran his mile in a little over 6 minutes. That's fast people. 
Andrew has been playing flag football. It was FREEZING last Saturday, which is fitting since today it is 75 degrees outside. 
I mentioned Andrew's birthday a few sentences above. He turned 8 on Thursday, October 26. I can not believe he's 8! We went to Jumping World with a few friends, had a fine dining experience at McDonalds and then feasted on an ice cream cake from Baskin Robbins. 




 On Friday we took him with us and the senior adults from our church on the General Jackson. He had a fun day in Nashville for his present from us. We had fun being with just him...when you are the youngest of three boys it's pretty rare that you get a captive audience for an entire day with your parents.

We had a Fall Festival at church. Clayton dressed as a referee. The plan was for Jack to dress as a basketball player, but basketball practice ran a little late and we ran out of time. 
 Andrew was a ninja and Fred was a traffic barrell.
It's been a good month. We are now gearing up for the holidays and a few other fun things.

Tuesday, September 19, 2017

Once a month will have to do...

So, it looks like we're in a season where once a month will have to be enough for posting. Yikes. We meet ourselves coming and going. This blog post is actually brought to you by a canceled soccer game. It's not raining. In fact, rain is not even predicted. We have no idea why it was canceled. We are calling it the favor of the Lord resting on the Shackelfords. Here's a little catch up...


With two starting at two new schools, the homework/workload situation is a little intense. My man in the middle has basketball practice everyday after school until 4:30 (He gets out at 2:00.)...okay, closer to 5:00, but who's counting?!? We sit down each evening for a nightly homework session. Sixth grade homework is intense. So is 9th grade homework...Clayton just does most of his online, which is funny because the world wide web was barely around when I was in 9th grade. So, we are basically experiencing the same 9th grade experience except completely opposite. 
You know what's not opposite? Girls leave boys notes in their lockers. Know how I know this? A little girl at Jack's school leaves him notes in his locker multiple times a day. He just rolls his eyes at it. I'm making sure he's being polite, but seriously, make these girls stop.  


The big boys had a party with the youth group at church. It was Jack's first "official" event and he really didn't want Andrew to attend. I get it, so I pitched a fun night with just mom to Andrew and he was all in. Can you tell?
Yes, our fun night included the cousins and Incredible Pizza. Does it get much better?!? We've been in Memphis almost 4 years and I still have to pinch myself that we can meet up with family on a random Sunday night.
 Monday morning, Labor Day, we all headed downtown to run the ChickFilA 5K. Well, I didn't run. There has to be an athletic supporter, carrier of the bags, holder of the phones, parker of the car, etc. in the group. That was me.
 Fred and his mini me were all set to race.

 Fred finishing.






 I think this is Clayton finishing. He came across first for the Shackelford family. I think he ran the 5K in around 23 minutes. Not too shabby.

Andrew had a fun run around the field. He was all business and did well. He's the kid in blue. 




My aunt Christie came to town and we took her to the old Sears building for dinner and just to look around. It is now called the Crosstown Concourse. It has restaurants, retail space, residences, offices...just a generally cool building. We all had a great time. If you're ever in the area, you should stop. We highly recommend Farm Burger and MemPops. 




All the running around that we've been doing has been leaving Dash absolutely exhausted. He even pulled a pillow up to make himself comfortable. 


We had a paint party at church. Painting/crafting is not really my thing. You know who loves it?!? Andrew. And so does his cousin Zachary and his friend Turner. These three precious boys busted up the women's paint party and had a blast! I loved having Andrew there.

The blog that I love, Thriving Home Blog, released their cookbook. It is all about freezer cooking and I absolutely LOVE it! I made Chocolate Zu-Nana Waffles and everyone ate them up. Jack wanted to know what Zu-Nana stood for and when I told him that it stood for zucchini and banana he wrinkled his nose and said, "I knew you would try to do something healthy." But, I'm proud to report that he tried them AND liked them. Five thumbs up from this crew. Now, that's high praise. 


I mentioned Jack playing basketball, but Andrew is playing flag football and Clayton is playing soccer. We stay pretty scheduled between all three sports. Zachary and Eli are graciously joining us each Saturday all the way from Germantown so the cousins can play together. It is such a delight to watch them play. Andrew and Zachary are on a team together. If you asked them their favorite part of the game it would probably be sitting on the sidelines together and eating snacks. Those two loves flow straight from my DNA. 

Fred and Renee had tickets to the Ole Miss game and they asked C and J to go. Having never been to the grove, they decided to give it a try. The Rebels played UT Martin and I'm pretty sure Jack and Clayton cheered for the Skyhawks...unfortunately they did not win. 

The boys were out of school last Friday. I took the opportunity to take them shopping to try on clothes for fall. The days of picking out clothes and bringing them home are long gone for several reasons: 
1. I have no idea what size they wear. 
2. I want them to wear it. 
3. The big boys are now in the men's department. Those clothing prices don't play. 
Jack was indignant about going shopping. In fact, when I told him we were going to shop for fall and winter clothes he said, "What?!? I have four pairs of shorts and two sweatshirts. What more do I need for this winter??" Sweet boy. After much, much discussion, we bought him one pair of joggers and another sweatshirt...oh, and a pair of shoes. The boy loves some tennis shoes. 
We also bought cupcakes...well the kids had cupcakes. I've reached an unfortunate age of certain foods hurting my acid reflux problem so drastically that I have to refrain. If it sounds terrible, you are correct. It's terrible. 


Sweet Jack went into the dressing room at TJ Maxx with 5 items. He walked down the hall, but quickly came back to tell me he couldn't find room 5. I explained to him that the 5 was for the number of items that he was taking back and that there were not assigned rooms. He just giggled. Think he goes shopping much?!?


I'm proud to report that we had a successful shopping trip. I'm also proud to report that it's been 95 since we bought all these clothes. I call that time well spent. {Insert eyeroll over Memphis weather.}